All I have is a name that she gave to me.

At some point
I’m assuming
I was everything to you
The family loved you
Does that mean I loved you?

If you found me
You would find out
I became a man
In no mans land
At 26
I can count my serious girlfriends on one hand
I hate to plan
I’m not a die hard Anything’s fan
And I’ve been standing on the teachings of males
with no genetic obligation to me
Yet would hate to see me fail

I didn’t Google how to shave
I just knew to go with with or against the grain
and to this day
I still don’t know the difference between either

Why aren’t you looking for me?

Is it because men didn’t travel
from now ancient lands
to hand me exotic gifts
that I had no idea what to do with?
I don’t even know if you’re religious.

Why wouldn’t you search for your offspring?
Why aren’t you seeking the heir to your knowledge and being?

Why wouldn’t you look for the successor of your mannerisms and know-hows?
Is there someone else in line?

Why have I never crossed your mind long enough
for you to just
reach out
Just once

What burdens were YOU carrying
As she carried me for nine months?!
Did you hold me for the first time and say,
“One day son, I’ll be gone…
Alive and well,
I’ll just be elsewhere.”

Did you have nicknames for me?
Did I cry for her when you playfully threw me in the air
When laughter turned to fear
Did you catch me in an embrace when I was on the brink of freaking out and say,
“I’m just playing with you boy.”

Did you brag about me to your friends?
Did I have a place in your wallet?

You know my favorite uncle saw me as one of his own.
(God rest his soul)
How did you see me?

All I have is your name and you didn’t bother to give it to me.



I’m a simple man. It doesn’t take much to make me happy. My niece could come home with a rock and tell me it’s a mountain, give it to me, and I would cherish it as if it was a diamond. Simple. I swear.

8 Acts Of Chivalry To Bring Back

Simple, yet satisfying.

James Michael Sama

The more women I talk to, the more I realize that the gentleman is a rare breed. The mission of the New Chivalry Movement is to bring men (and women) together who strive to be the best versions of themselves and love and respect those around them.

As the gentleman has become less prominent, so have the respectful acts that define him.

Here are 8 acts of chivalry we often overlook and should work to bring back.


Giving up your seat.

Whether on a bus or on a crowded subway, giving up your seat to another is a rare but great sign of respect. I always cringe a bit when I see a woman or elderly person forced to stand while young men remain distracted by their phones. It all comes down to being aware of your surroundings and acting accordingly.

Only one in seven men will offer their seat…

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